I know EXACTLY what you mean. I am going to be a much more relaxed grandmother than I was mother. Always trying to make everything perfect was exhausting. Clothes don't need to match, heck hair doesn't even always have to be combed. Probably gonna stick to the teeth always need to be brushed but banana splits for dinner - sure.
She's a little doll, no matter what she's wearing! How adorable! It's great that she's making her own choices, and she's happy about them too. xo Paulette P.S...I like her outfit!